Undressed Conversations
Undressed Conversations, is a no-filter, no-performance deep dive into marriage where you and Tonya strip away the bullshit, tell the real stories behind the glossy moments, and show couples what authentic intimacy actually looks like. It’s raw, funny, a little dangerous, and packed with the kind of truth that makes people feel seen, turned on, and brave enough to repair their own relationship.
Undressed Conversations
Latest Episodes
E27 Your Sex Life Isn’t Broken… Your Timing Is
Ever tried to make a move on your spouse and realized you’re basically flirting with a sleep-deprived corpse? Yeah… welcome to the real problem most couples don’t talk about.In this episode of Undressed Conversations, we break d...
E25 Why We Were So Wrong About Oral (And What Changed Everything)
We’re dropping the filters and talking honestly about something most couples avoid or fake their way through. In this episode, we unpack how our mindset around giving completely shifted, what used to feel awkward or misunderstood, and how that ...
E25 Walking Into an Adult Store for the First Time (Why It’s Way More Awkward Than You Think)
There are a few moments in life that instantly take you back to being a teenager again, and walking into an adult store for the first time is definitely one of them. The awkward eye contact, the “don’t look too long” panic, the internal debate ...
E24 I Love You… But I’m Not Attracted to You Anymore | The Truth About Marriage & Desire
Nobody wants to say it out loud… but a lot of couples feel it.“I love you, but I’m not attracted to you anymore.”In this episode, we break down the truth most marriages avoid. Love might be unconditional, but attraction isn’t. It’...
E23 We Followed the Rules… and It Made Us Worse!
This episode is a real story about what actually happens when you grow up with strict rules around dating, sex, and “doing the right thing.”We were the good kids. Door open. Following the rules. Respectful.At least… that’s what ...
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Hey, just found your guys' podcast, not sure how I did, but uh just listened to the most recent episode, married for over 30 years, and um I really like the way both of you guys talk, the honesty, the way he talks, just similar to uh uh normal people, and uh such a refreshing, honest view from a real perspective and not some clinical or psychological perspective. So, anyways, just wanted to give you guys feedback that I'm glad I found it, and I really think you guys are doing a great job. Thanks, buddy.